Nun

You move through changes that would sink other people. You are at home in the deep water where things end and begin again, and you can pass through a loss of one kind or another and surface renewed. People trust you with what is hidden, because you do not flinch from it.

You get pulled under by the depths instead of passing through them. Change can feel like a loss you will never come back from, or you circle the dark places and cannot find the surface. The same depth that lets you transform can become somewhere you get stuck, gripping what needs to be released.